Show the Ladies Some Love

When it comes to March Madness, most people are talking about the men—I admit, I’m guilty. In fact, until this year—actually this exact weekend—I didn’t even realize that both the men and women of the NCAA have their Final Four on the same weekend.

To paraphrase a line from the late Rodney Dangerfield, can’t the women get any respect?

When Warren Buffett offered a billion dollar pay-off for anyone who could come up with the perfect bracket, that road to the Final Four only included the men’s teams, not the women’s.

When I saw Cassadee Pope and Danielle Bradbery, were scheduled to play for the women’s tournament here in Nashville, I made a comment to my daughters about whoever booked the entertainment didn’t know their target audience very well. When they asked who I might suggest, Chloe and Taylor laughed out loud when I mentioned Carrie Underwood or Jason Aldean. Seeing who was booked, they didn’t think the women’s tournament had a chance of getting someone at the level of those two country chart toppers and clearly the organizers didn’t either.

Then a post came through my Facebook newsfeed on Friday about the Eli Young Band and Jason Aldean doing a concert for the Final Four! Since I live in Nashville, and the friend who posted lives in Nashville—I naturally assumed they were playing for the women’s Final Four, since that tournament is IN Nashville. Naturally I gloated to my daughters that my earlier suggestion hadn’t been so ridiculous.

But, I couldn’t have been more WRONG!

Last night when I saw folks posting about Kentucky and UConn making it to the championship game, I knew the women hadn’t played yet, and Kentucky was not one of the teams in Nashville. Thus my first realization that both the men and women have their Final Four on the same weekend. With that came the realization that maybe the Eli Young Band and Jason Aldean also hadn’t played for the women here in Nashville.

It gets worse. Not only did I find that those two played in Dallas, TX for the men’s tournament, I also found out their weekend festivities included a THREE DAY MUSIC FESTIVAL! Who is playing in Dallas you ask? In addition to the other two top names they also had Bruce Sprinsteen, fun., Tim McGraw and LL Cool J.

Nashville is frickin’ MUSIC CITY and the best they can do is a couple of winners from The Voice? I’m all for supporting female artists. If women (and girls) supported female artists the way they do male artists, women would rule the world—but that’s a whole different blog post I need to write. Why wasn’t Carrie Underwood, Miranda Lambert, Kasey Musgraves, Sheryl Crow, and Kelly Clarkson booked for the women’s tournament? Heck, I bet some of the ladies even have Luke Bryan on their playlist. Cassadee Pope and Danielle Bradbery could still be on the bill as support, just like the men had Jack Ingram and Pat Green.

Sad to say, this is just one more arena where women are not treated with the same respect as men.

As I admitted earlier, I myself am at fault for not having realized the big dance for both the men and women takes place on the same weekend. However, not only is the women’s Final Four in Nashville this weekend, my daughters’ best friend from Cedar Rapids, IA is playing for UConn. Yep, UConn made it to both the men’s and women’s Final Four! We’ll be cheering on the Lady Huskies’, Kiah Stokes tonight. I’ve got memories (and videos) of Chloe, Taylor and Kiah having sleepovers during which they belted out Earth, Wind & Fire tunes after discovering the timeless band through Ricky Smith on season two of American Idol—now where are those videos?

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